phil4cumming
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[Edit: I wrote in frustration and haste, and I want to clarify I do NOT think all Mods and Admins and Room Owners here are bad people who are not trying to make the site better. But there are a few people here who go out of their way to make the experience bad for some users and I believe it is intentional. They aren't here to help anyone nor do they care to make this site better. But they see it as their fiefdom where they can lord power over others apparently with impunity. I am frustrated by these people and the system in which they are allowed to operate, not at the genuinely good people on this site who volunteer to help out because they want to make this site great.]
So in "themed rooms" admins and mods can just go on a tear and delete posted content they claim "doesn't meet with the room's theme", but why then do these same people allow content that is clearly off-theme, and sometimes borderline illegal from some users? Isn't that peculiar?
In "Older for Younger 18+" the strictness of the theme has been recently re-instated by what I can only assume is an HOA like power surge by people who have nothing in their real lives. It's been gradually shifting from deleting a few posts to much of my content getting repeatedly deleted in the room. So today, I conducted an experiment. I scrolled back up through the room and copied and pasted pictures and GIFs that were still in the room from over 30 minutes before. Funny, these pictures which were live in the room for sometimes over an hour, showing they were objectively fine, but they were deleted as soon as I posted them. Interesting.
I get it, you're a Mod or an Admin and you need to feel your authority is unchallenged. And I even understand you muting me when I call you out on your hypocrisy. But stop acting like you're being altruistic and selflessly curating the room's content when you're really just targeting people you have a beef with. And it's the same people who were doing this shit over a year ago before the "strict monitoring" was lifted. They would ban and mute me for calling them out instead of really taking care of the room, which is what they are supposed to do. Today I watched as mods moved into the room, and then called an admin in to mute me. That admin even made a snarky remark in the room's main chat as if they were flexing they could get the last word. All that nonsense, all that effort and yet, here I am. Still here, YEARS after your initial attempts to squeeze me out. What does that say about your "power"? And after all this, all manner of off-themed pictures, spam, bots, and questionable content still pollutes the rooms. You re doing a lousy job, and everyone can see it.
Well unless you're trying to create a combative, unfun experience. Then you're doing a great job. No need to give an explanation either when it is clear what you are doing.
You've become like the Umpires in MLB. You think the site is all about you. In your head, you think people pay the ticket price to see you delete, ban, and mute. You no longer do what you're meant to do, you just cause the site to get worse. You must be so proud.
So in "themed rooms" admins and mods can just go on a tear and delete posted content they claim "doesn't meet with the room's theme", but why then do these same people allow content that is clearly off-theme, and sometimes borderline illegal from some users? Isn't that peculiar?
In "Older for Younger 18+" the strictness of the theme has been recently re-instated by what I can only assume is an HOA like power surge by people who have nothing in their real lives. It's been gradually shifting from deleting a few posts to much of my content getting repeatedly deleted in the room. So today, I conducted an experiment. I scrolled back up through the room and copied and pasted pictures and GIFs that were still in the room from over 30 minutes before. Funny, these pictures which were live in the room for sometimes over an hour, showing they were objectively fine, but they were deleted as soon as I posted them. Interesting.
I get it, you're a Mod or an Admin and you need to feel your authority is unchallenged. And I even understand you muting me when I call you out on your hypocrisy. But stop acting like you're being altruistic and selflessly curating the room's content when you're really just targeting people you have a beef with. And it's the same people who were doing this shit over a year ago before the "strict monitoring" was lifted. They would ban and mute me for calling them out instead of really taking care of the room, which is what they are supposed to do. Today I watched as mods moved into the room, and then called an admin in to mute me. That admin even made a snarky remark in the room's main chat as if they were flexing they could get the last word. All that nonsense, all that effort and yet, here I am. Still here, YEARS after your initial attempts to squeeze me out. What does that say about your "power"? And after all this, all manner of off-themed pictures, spam, bots, and questionable content still pollutes the rooms. You re doing a lousy job, and everyone can see it.
Well unless you're trying to create a combative, unfun experience. Then you're doing a great job. No need to give an explanation either when it is clear what you are doing.
You've become like the Umpires in MLB. You think the site is all about you. In your head, you think people pay the ticket price to see you delete, ban, and mute. You no longer do what you're meant to do, you just cause the site to get worse. You must be so proud.
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But if someone is obviously posting stuff that doesn't belong (i.e. dick pic spamming, BDSM type content, etc) and they get mad because they get chased from the room, even if its by one GM, then that's really on them.
