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Our BDSM chat room is for those into bondage, discipline, sadomasochism or (dominance and submission)-- all adults with non-traditional sexual interests are welcome. Chat about foot worship, cross-dressing, water sports, spanking and edgeplay as well as popular fetishes like ruber/latex/leather, ropes, knifes, cupping and collaring.
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Our Kink and BDSM Chat is for adults interested in kinky sex-- online or real life. In our BDSM chatroom you will find people to chat with about popular and obscure sexual preferences and fetishes. We also wish to provide you with articles and links to kinky sites that will provide tips, warnings and information on the BDSM and Kink lifestyle.
What Are Kink, BDSM and Fetishes
BDSM, Kink & Fetishes
is an acronym for Bondage and Discipline (B&D), Domination and Submission (D&S) and Sadism and Masochism (S&M). Within these titles are numerous sexual preferences, roles and fetishes which all fall under the umbrella term of Kink which simply refers to all "unusual" sexual behavior. Fetishes are sexual excitement brought about a specific "thing" such as an inanimate object, a scent, or a body type. Popular fetishes may include, feet, rope, latex, hair, shoes and wax.
Bondage and Discipline (B&D)
as the name would suggest is about restraining and punishing, an example is being handcuffed and spanked. The degree or severity to which this is practiced can vary from light playful spanks to hard spiked paddles.
Domination and Submission (D&S)
can, but does not need to be physical. You can dominate or submit to someone over the phone or computer. D&S revolves around power relationships where one person has control over the other. These roles are not set in stone and partners may choose to switch from time to time if they find joy or arousal on both sides. D&S is often linked with roleplay where power dynamics and be fully exercised such as in the relationship between a boss and worker, teacher and student or prisoner and guard.
Sadism and Masochism (S&M)
is the gratification from inflicting pain (Sadism) or receiving pain (Masochism), where the pain can be physical or emotional. A Sadist may harm, belittle or humiliate a Masochist who ultimately finds pleasure in being in such situations. B&D and D&S can be natural parts of S&M but as with all things people have preferences and these titles are not so much rules as shorthand for describing what brings a person pleasure.
BDSM Articles & Websites
Introduction to BDSM
- A Loving Introduction to BDSM
- 25 Facts About BDSM That You Won’t Learn In “Fifty Shades Of Grey”
- BDSM Wiki.info: A comprehensive resource for those new to BDSM
- Make your sex life more adventurous right now.
- FetLife.Com: The facebook of BDSM