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Sexual Assault in the BDSM room every night

Somerset

Somerset

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Every night, after the room staff and BDSM GM goes to bed (around 1am EST), a guest logs in and roleplays sexual acts against women in the room against their will.

Typically the women are told to "ignore the trolls." This is more than a troll. This is sexual assault. This breaks site rules.

A GM or room admin needs to be in the room during these times. We shouldn't be told to ignore it.
 
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If there are no GMs or mods in the room, you can contact any available GM by checking the staff list to see who is online. Anyone of us will come to the room to help deal with the situation, but the first thing you should do is report the user.
 
This is what we do. But GMs don't always answer our PMs. It is a nightly occurrence. Like clockwork. By time we get a GM to help us, it has gone on for about 20 minutes, which seems like forever to whomever he is targeting.
 
You can also report the messages posting main and GMs can handle from the outside. Do they use the same name on the guest account every time?
 
This has not been reported to any BDSM staff member aside posting here. I have dealt with this person myself several times, however he has already been IP banned and several actions taken against him. Unfortunately if they use a VPN we csnn9t for anything. He does log out and moves on if no one engages with him so yes that will continue to be my suggestion. Report the site rule break message then place them on ignore.
 
Somerset said:
Every night, after the room staff and BDSM GM goes to bed (around 1am EST), a guest logs in and roleplays sexual acts against women in the room against their will.

Typically the women are told to "ignore the trolls." This is more than a troll. This is sexual assault. This breaks site rules.

A GM or room admin needs to be in the room during these times. We shouldn't be told to ignore it.
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I'm on some nights at that time. Send me a pm if you see me on and give me the guest name he is using and I will take care of it. Flagging helps to. But if there only one or two GM's on. Takes a while so like I said message me.
 
asunder said:
This has not been reported to any BDSM staff member aside posting here. I have dealt with this person myself several times, however he has already been IP banned and several actions taken against him. Unfortunately if they use a VPN we csnn9t for anything. He does log out and moves on if no one engages with him so yes that will continue to be my suggestion. Report the site rule break message then place them on ignore.
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I was not implying that you or any other room staff does a bad job. It happens every night. We've had to involve GMs to handle it every night.

I did in fact ignore him. It didn't stop him. I reported his posts and waited for help. He continued to e-rape me.

I've attached some screenshots. I didn't screen shot it all. It went on for several more minutes after I stopped taking screenshots. It got worse.
 

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HalloweenGirl said:
I'm on some nights at that time. Send me a pm if you see me on and give me the guest name he is using and I will take care of it. Flagging helps to. But if there only one or two GM's on. Takes a while so like I said message me.
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Thank you very much. I will look for you.
 
Somerset said:
I was not implying that you or any other room staff does a bad job. It happens every night. We've had to involve GMs to handle it every night.

I did in fact ignore him. It didn't stop him. I reported his posts and waited for help. He continued to e-rape me.

I've attached some screenshots. I didn't screen shot it all. It went on for several more minutes after I stopped taking screenshots. It got worse.
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We are not allowed to accept screenshot as proof of anything and I understand that you are not implying that we were doing a bad job. I am just saying we cannot change or do anything about it if we are not informed is all. I have messaged Loz to see what options we have for it but the more you engage with this person the more he will come back. He started coming after I went to bed to instigate so the best thing truly to do is as soon as you see him is put him on ignore. He will go away.
 
I understand screenshots cannot be accepted as proof. We found a GM to handle him last night. It was all in main for them to see.

Telling women to ignore him isn't the right call and is in fact sending the wrong message. He is breaking room and site rules. Female users have the right to be in a site room without being accosted.
 
Somerset said:
I understand screenshots cannot be accepted as proof. We found a GM to handle him last night. It was all in main for them to see.

Telling women to ignore him isn't the right call and is in fact sending the wrong message. He is breaking room and site rules. Female users have the right to be in a site room
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HappyEater said:
Why don’t we make Somerset a mod? That could help. Anyone thought of that? If she wants of course.
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The BDSM room staff are working through different solutions to help with this reported issue. Thank you all.
 
Somerset said:
I did in fact ignore him. It didn't stop him. I reported his posts and waited for help.

I've attached some screenshots.
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Clearly you didn’t ignore them using the settings available to you. I hope you at least gave the impression of ignoring them.

@asunder is correct. You reported, ignore and don’t give them any attention.

It is unfortunate that we can’t always be here to take immediate action.

Somerset said:
Telling women to ignore him isn't the right call and is in fact sending the wrong message. He is breaking room and site rules. Female users have the right to be in a site room without being accosted.
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Ignore after reporting it. Giving them attention is probably the worst thing.

Every user has that right.
 
Somerset said:
Every night, after the room staff and BDSM GM goes to bed (around 1am EST), a guest logs in and roleplays sexual acts against women in the room against their will.

Typically the women are told to "ignore the trolls." This is more than a troll. This is sexual assault. This breaks site rules.

A GM or room admin needs to be in the room during these times. We shouldn't be told to ignore it.
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You can contact any staff that are available, we have a list on site of all Gm , im sorry this is happening
 
It has continued. I followed the suggestions. Reported the troll's posts until I couldn't report any more. Waited. And then reached out to a GM. The woman who was being harassed/assaulted chose to leave the room when nothing was done by the GM who responded.
 
Somerset said:
It has continued. I followed the suggestions. Reported the troll's posts until I couldn't report any more. Waited. And then reached out to a GM. The woman who was being harassed/assaulted chose to leave the room when nothing was done by the GM who responded.
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The woman could have used the ignore feature after reporting, too. It would have helped. Hopefully they are aware of that being an option to them.
 
Unfortunately so long as they continue to get responses, they will continue to engage. Did it continue after the GM came in? Just because we do not post in main or discuss action, it does not mean that it was not taken. We do not discuss action taken with chatters.
If you see it, please report and reach out to a GM and remind others to just ignore if it is bothering them. Hopefully we can all work together to spread advice and they will move on.
 
Somerset said:
Every night, after the room staff and BDSM GM goes to bed (around 1am EST), a guest logs in and roleplays sexual acts against women in the room against their will.

Typically the women are told to "ignore the trolls." This is more than a troll. This is sexual assault. This breaks site rules.

A GM or room admin needs to be in the room during these times. We shouldn't be told to ignore it.
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Thats strange, i have been banned of doing nothing and the people who are really disturbing or breaking the rules nothing cant be done to them .
 
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