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Do women really love harsh degradation amd bodyshamimg

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Jakejas

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I have this extreme degradation kink... Including bodyshaming amd humiliating insecurities (only during rp/sexting)

Most women who say yes hate it later on. Or get too much for them

Are women here who actually love it and crave this kind of treatment??.
 
I can only speak for myself and guess for others but...I think when most women are interested in bdsm and say they like humiliation, they mean something different from what you mean. Most women would not enjoy being made fun of on a personal level by having you point out their insecurities. I wouldn't. What I think they mean, and what I mean, is I would enjoy being reduced to a sex object and exposed to others. In other words, it relies upon the old notion of women embracing sexuality as taboo, dirty, and, if that side of a woman is exposed, she will be humiliated. Of course, there's always an exception to any general rule. There's probably at least a few women out there who could enjoy a different, dare I say, harsher form of humiliation. But those women will be harder to find. Just my 2 cents, for all that's worth.
 
Bunnyslut said:
I can only speak for myself and guess for others but...I think when most women are interested in bdsm and say they like humiliation, they mean something different from what you mean. Most women would not enjoy being made fun of on a personal level by having you point out their insecurities. I wouldn't. What I think they mean, and what I mean, is I would enjoy being reduced to a sex object and exposed to others. In other words, it relies upon the old notion of women embracing sexuality as taboo, dirty, and, if that side of a woman is exposed, she will be humiliated. Of course, there's always an exception to any general rule. There's probably at least a few women out there who could enjoy a different, dare I say, harsher form of humiliation. But those women will be harder to find. Just my 2 cents, for all that's worth.
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Oh that perfectly makes sense. I have seen a lot of women asking to be degraded "no limits" but when i go harsher they kinda dislike that. But I have fortunately found a few exceptions as well who go beyond what even i can give them lol.

I guess its just matter of finding the person with similarities i believe.

Thanks for answering
 
Communication is key.. talk about her expectations, experiences (irl/online), limits and Likes/Dislikes. Agree on a safe word for her.. you must stop when she posts the safe word.
Take your time.. establish a basis of trust.. move slow or fast according to her mood. It can take weeks/months for her to trust you.. but it’s worth and rewarding for you both.
(Reminder: “No Limits” is not allowed)
Have fun and play safe.
 
SirWolf6 said:
Communication is key.. talk about her expectations, experiences (irl/online), limits and Likes/Dislikes. Agree on a safe word for her.. you must stop when she posts the safe word.
Take your time.. establish a basis of trust.. move slow or fast according to her mood. It can take weeks/months for her to trust you.. but it’s worth and rewarding for you both.
(Reminder: “No Limits” is not allowed)
Have fun and play safe.
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Great adive... Thanks
 
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