Consent

[TheBarmaid]

I'd say that 99% of you guys dont have concent to post those pics of exes or whatever.. Some are just fantasies, google finds a lot of these pics lol

 

[Goddess Alexandria]

I'd say that 99% of you guys don't have consent to post those pics of exes or whatever.. Some are just fantasies, google finds a lot of these pic lol

100% accurate but then again nothing will be done about it, nor will they stop doing so because of the following reasons:
1.) No one cares about the unaware non-consenting being exploited.
2.) The men posting those woman see nothing wrong with what they are doing.
3.) These woman know nothing about this site or how their pictures are being shared.
4.) Because these women do not know and can not speak up for themselves, those who run this site do nothing which allows for it to continue.

 

[Tastymew]

Bence çoğunuzun eski sevgililerinizin veya benzerlerinin fotoğraflarını paylaşma izni yok... Bazıları sadece fantezi, Google'da bu fotoğrafların birçoğu bulunuyor zaten lol

Hahaha beyaz What an accurate observation!

 

[JamieJonez]

100% accurate but then again nothing will be done about it, nor will they stop doing so because of the following reasons:
1.) No one cares about the unaware non-consenting being exploited.
2.) The men posting those woman see nothing wrong with what they are doing.
3.) These woman know nothing about this site or how their pictures are being shared.
4.) Because these women do not know and can not speak up for themselves, those who run this site do nothing which allows for it to continue.

Sadly accurate, but laws in various countries are finally catching up. Lots of men (and I do mean 'lots' it's not hyperbole) that use this site are at risk of ending up on an offender's register in an increasing number of the jurisdictions many post from, and they honestly deserve to be.

The site increasingly puts itself at risk of legal difficulties, I would think, and it's time they wise up to tackling, at the very least, the most toxic (and often ACTUAL law breaking) misogyny on this site. I have been saying this for years. Have offered to try and help. Have sometimrs been censored by the site for speaking out. I like the site, despite all that, and the hoards of toxic (mainly) men that make parts of it so unpleasant, including for a good number of men, who get treated with blanket suspicion because of women's hideous experience with too many of the *worst* men. I wouldn't want to lose the site. I think if the people who run it finally get serious, these things can be dealt with.

But honestly all it takes is one person in one of an increasing number of jurisdictions to bypass the 'hit or miss' muddled site rules, and the sometimes woefully inadequate or inconsistent enforcement of them, and go straight to the police in the right/wrong (depending on your outlook) country/state, and I think this site could be in real legal hot water.

@ChatMaster even 'liked' a similar post I made on this topic recently, not that there is any signs of anything changing any time soon after that fact. But we live in hope I guess. A thumbs up on a several weeks old post I made is a start, I still wait to see real progress but I hope it happens.

In short, the site's tired old excuse that 'it's a sex site', as if they are simply trying to cater to a host of equally legitimate 'tastes' or 'kinks', and in particular the presumption that women/any user is de facto consenting to *anything* and *everything* just by signing up to a sex site, is increasingly threadbare and inadequate. The site must do better or it will either die naturally from people leaving out of despair & frustration, or it'll be forced to close legally, imo. Probably with financial and legal consequences for those who own/control (or fail to control) it.

Dealing with toxic misogyny only makes the site better for everyone. It deals with a huge portion of everything currently wrong with the site. More women will stay. The site being devoid of women (who DO leave because the site is so hostile for women and no real efforts are made, trust me) only makes it worse, I presume, for the current straight male supermajority of users.

Every site user, pretty much regardless of gender/sexuality is better served if the site finally commits to dealing with sexism, misogyny, and hostility to women, except for those users who are morally repugnant and in many cases, literally committing criminal offences, therefore a net benefit rather than a loss if they quit the site.

 

[Goddess Alexandria]

@ChatMaster even 'liked' a similar post I made on this topic recently, not that there is any signs of anything changing any time soon after that fact. But we live in hope I guess. A thumbs up on a several weeks old post I made is a start, I still wait to see real progress but I hope it happens.

In short, the site's tired old excuse that 'it's a sex site', as if they are simply trying to cater to a host of equally legitimate 'tastes' or 'kinks', and in particular the presumption that women/any user is de facto consenting to *anything* and *everything* just by signing up to a sex site, is increasingly threadbare and inadequate. The site must do better or it will either die naturally from people leaving out of despair & frustration, or it'll be forced to close legally, imo. Probably with financial and legal consequences for those who own/control (or fail to control) it.

Dealing with toxic misogyny only makes the site better for everyone. It deals with a huge portion of everything currently wrong with the site. More women will stay. The site being devoid of women (who DO leave because the site is so hostile for women and no real efforts are made, trust me) only makes it worse, I presume, for the current straight male supermajority of users.

Every site user, pretty much regardless of gender/sexuality is better served if the site finally commits to dealing with sexism, misogyny, and hostility to women, except for those users who are morally repugnant and in many cases, literally committing criminal offences, therefore a net benefit rather than a loss if they quit the site

I agree with you wholeheartedly. @PJBlack is one of the site staff leadership that is rather helpful and kind while being fair and understanding and actually willing to listen to issue and doing his best to help.

In my experience on this site @PJBlack and @Angie have been the most helpful, understanding, kind, and fair site leadership to deal with. The same unfortunately can not be said for CM. The actual owner of the site is not often online, around or even active with site issues.

The sad thing is that along with this issue there are other issues like the cp bot that "some how" keep managing to come back after getting banned or appearing when there are no GM's online. Rather than deal with the real issues they would rather ban people (like me for Ai art not deepfakes either but having it say commission which never took money and rarely took gold and having a chat offsite for friends when they can not be on the site that openly says SEX SITE at the top, even when said platform still encouraged the ones who came to go on site when able and were often more active on site than the server) than actually deal with issues like this or other serious issues.

It has been said to me that the reason for this is because the people doing this are giving kickbacks (AKA money) to CM which given the lack of any serious action on such matters is hard to not believe.

 

[PJBlack]

Goddess Alexandria, Thanks for the kind words. This a big site with issues like any other large platform. For clarity, @ChatMaster doesn’t own the site and I don’t believe that he would accept any kickbacks of any sort. Bots, they suck and the entire staff does the best they can do as all of them are volunteers and can assure, none of them get paid to help out @321.
Thanks
PJ

 

[HalloweenGirl]

If I see any of these posts that mention the word "ex" in this forum, I always delete them. Sure, some are more than likely not admitting they're talking about their ex, but some are removed.