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Loyalty test

The problem you may face here, and this speaks to site rules, is this would involve making real life information known about chat users. Which is against site rules. This would also involve the potential for people to use this as a means to bully or harass individuals if they don't appreciate how their relationship ended. Which is also against site rules.
 
Speaking as a woman in a relationship that has lasted multiple years, if my partner tried doing that to me it would be an instant end whether I actually engaged with the "loyalty tester" or not. I could never trust them again to not test me on all sorts of stupid shit. Promoting a relationship destructor of that nature is something I personally could never approve of. You either trust someone or you don't.

As a GM, it sounds like something that could be used to harass other users, which is something that is not permitted on site. What people do in their own time and with their own preferences is their business. While I personally don't condone cheating, it's not my place to tell anyone else (except my partner!) that they can or can not cheat, and I also feel that who is doing what with who and whether or not that counts as being unfaithful is none of my damn business.

If people don't trust their partners, that sounds like something that should be dealt with between the people in the relationship, and not outsourced to some random account found in a VIP room to "test" fidelity.
 
I get the idea - on paper it sounds practical, like giving people a way to “verify” suspicions without confronting their partner directly.

But in reality, those kinds of setups can get messy fast. You’re basically introducing deception as a tool, and even if the intention is to find the truth, it can backfire - misunderstandings, false positives, or even hurting someone who wasn’t actually doing anything wrong.
 
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